noun. A nauseating yet romantic condition when two souls meet, mate, and make the monkey with two mothers. Whatever.
Real citation: "That was totally Angel's fault. He stalked and flirted with an innocent girl, pretending to be someone he wasn't. It was always going to end in tears, and those tears (imo) are the reason Buffy will never love anyone as much, because she can't afford to in her heart of hearts, not because of soulmate-itude. Willow's only proactive action in the Buffy/Angel relationship was giving him short shrift for overdramatizing going for a coffee. "
(1formybaby, "The Hacker, The Witch, and Her Wardrobe: The Willow Topic," Feb. 29, 2004, Television Without Pity, http://forums.televisionwithoutpity.com/index.php?showtopic=2337&view=findpost&p=1086484)
Made-up citation: "Does the joy of soulmate-itude ever outweigh the agony of chlamydiosity?"