adj. A more barfy form of goo-goo eyes.
Real citation: "I brought a blanket, says Charlie. And of course, it's he and Claire who get all soul matey–eyed. Which is totally confusing, because wasn't Charlie ALREADY enlightened? Wasn't that the whole point of him driving Desmond off the bridge?"
(May 24, 2010, Emily Nussbaum, New York, http://nymag.com/daily/entertainment/2010/05/lost_recap_finale_the_end.html)
Made-up citation: "I thought I was the master of getting all soul matey-eyed with the ladies. Then I went to the ophthalmologist, and he cleared that mess up."